It's been a bit of a rough week for
us.
Sunday
I was throwing up and
really dizzy all day.
I was asked to sing in church and had committed months
ago.
Miraculously I was able to get through my piece
without any serious problems.
(Answers to my pleading prayers)
Both Trav and I were relieved when I finished...
I
could go home and rest.
Monday
I had a THROBBING headache,
blurred vision, and nausea.
No puking though!
I spent the day cleaning, trying
to get my mind off the pain.
That didn't help as much as I had hoped
but we had
a nice clean kitchen. :)
Tuesday
I was cramping/contracting
nonstop I was in pain
all of Tuesday, Tuesday night through
Wednesday morning.
I couldn't do anything to relieve the pain either.
I stood - I cramped.
I sat - I cramped.
I laid down - I cramped.
It was awful. I
spent all day in bed.
It was a miserable day.
Wednesday
I woke up around 4:00 and
couldn't go back to sleep
because I hurt so bad.
At 6:30 I finally turned to
Trav and told him
we needed to go to the hospital.
We needed to make sure everything was
okay,
make sure I wasn't in preterm labor/dilating.
It was terrifying and
incredibly painful.
Trav was pretty concerned at this point.
Going to the
hospital was emotionally overwhelming
for both of us.
After being monitored for nearly three hours,
having tests taken and waiting for results
we were told my body was not
producing the labor hormone
(I don't remember what that is called)
and I was
NOT dilating at all.
(Thank goodness!)
They said some bacteria was in my urine
so I may have a bladder infection.
so I may have a bladder infection.
They're hoping my body was
cramping/contracting as a way
of fighting the bacteria.
I was given some
antibiotics and sent home.
Later that evening we went to our doctors for a
follow up
and he checked everything again.
Same results:
Baby is healthily and
happily nesting
5 centimeters above my cervix
no dilation/preterm labor taking
place whatsoever
and still cramping like mad.
Our doctor told us he didn't want us traveling
as a
precaution.
He said every woman's body is different and responds differently
to
pregnancy, infection, ect.
He said he felt the bladder infection was the cause
of the cramping
but couldn't guarantee it - so no traveling.
We called and
cancelled our flight to Minnesota.
Thankfully the airlines credited us our
airfare
down to the penny of what we paid.
We can use our credit anytime within
the next year.
What a blessing! This is especially wonderful
because we didn't
insure our tickets.
(Stupid of me, I know.)
We're grateful our doctor was willing to write
an official letter to the airlines validating our situation.
Once that letter was received we were given the credit
without any problems or
additional fees.
Again, what a blessing!!!
Thursday
was spent in bed.
The
cramping/contracting was considerably lighter
but still enough that I was
feeling like I should take things
much slower
and lower my activity for the
day.
I spent the day in bed or sitting while with family.
It was Braxton's 15th
birthday
so we went up to Cam and Alicia's to celebrate
and I seriously just
sat the entire time.
But hey! I felt good enough to go so I was thrilled.
Progress is progress and I'll gladly take what I can get.
Another blessing!
Friday (today)
We were supposed to
be flying to MN
but instead it was spent in bed until 1:30 this afternoon.
My
antibiotics have a drowsy side-effect warning on them
and let me tell you:
I AM
DROWSY!
I went to lunch with my mom, sister-in-law and some friends
which was
nice
but I'm still slow moving.
Tonight is going to be the same as the rest of
the week...
not much going on and that's okay with me.
My cramps are mostly
gone
just stabbing pains every now and then.
If I sit too long I get a bit
crampy when I stand back up.
Other than that I'm doing much better.
I really
think it was a bladder infection causing the cramping.
I hope it was anyway.
I
don't want to feel that level pain
until we are MUCH closer to our due date
and
baby is safe to be delivered.
So, that's been my week.
Travis has been incredibly
supportive and patient with me.
Earlier this weekI would nearly collapse in
pain just from
bending over to pick something up off the floor.
Travis has been
wonderful to jump in.
He carries things,
He carries things,
picks things up for me,
brings food/water
to me in bed
just so I could avoid the increase of cramping.
I
haven't been trying to be needy, but I'll tell you what,
when the pain is consistent
AND NOTHING HELPS
it's hard not to be needy.
I am so grateful to have a husband
who looks past the neediness
and sees the pain and suffering -
the reasoning behind it all.
I am so blessed.
I love him so much.
We are bummed our annual trip to Minnesota had to
be cancelled
but looking at the big picture we're 1000% okay with it
if it
means our little girl is staying put
and I'm not [unintentionally] hurting her.
So, I guess we'll have to take our little girly to Minnesota
after she's
born!
We'll show off how adorable she is then. :)
That's something Trav and I
happily
and
gratefully
look forward too.
We are so blessed.